Hey! you all lovely friends if you didn’t know that I am a blogger then today I have come out! Especially my Ghanaian friends. I have come out! This is a short video I have compiled to showcase all my posts.
Obviously I need to turn the many views into followers, likes and comments. And a complete appealing design too. Trust me it shall be done.
I am glad of my blogging progress report and I am definitely enjoying every bit of it.
Prophet T. B. Joshua, I thank God for choosing your mother’s womb to bring you to this world. Your death has really come as a shock. In fact, this morning I couldn’t control myself. I will celebrate you instead of mourn you. Hmm!
My journey with you began in 2010 when I first visited your church as an international visitor. Ha! My spiritual and physical experience was awesome.
Through that experience, my entire family both from my father’s and mother’s side started following your ministry : Synagogue Church of all Nations (Scoan). My friends and colleagues also followed up.
Today, we all can attest to the healing, deliverance and blessings we enjoyed from your ministry.
If I attend church today it is because of your teachings. If I visit the orphanage today and care for an old woman who is not my blood relative then it is as a result of your teachings and exemplary lifestyle.
You have thought me and millions of people how to meditate on the word of God by reading it slowly and attentively and turning the word of God over and over in our hearts. Thank you my Prophet T. B. Joshua.
I don’t joke with your mass prayers for viewers on your tv station : Emmanuel TV.
You knew it was time to go and so you prepared your Evangelists.
12th June, 2021 is your 58th birthday. We shall celebrate it with fasting and prayers as you have instructed.
Happy birthday PROPHET T. B. JOSHUA and may your soul restin peace. I LOVE YOU THE MAN IN THE SYNAGOGUE.
I have been hit hard by a tsunami of disappointment this week and that has led to the creation of this post.
We are obviously surrounded with negative situations daily. These negative situations may come visiting you in the form of disappointments, failures, rejections or betrayals.
They come hitting you hard when you least expect them. That is why they’re negative, aren’t they?
Then your head is messed up. Your heart is torn apart and you may think whatever thoughts that creep into your fragile mind.
At this point, I would invite you to a cup of hot coffee or tea if you’re a lover as I am. And I will tell you to grieve if that will make you feel better but don’t waste precious time and energy in doing so.
This is when I will urge you on to positivity. If you’re enjoying your cup of coffee or tea, I will tell you that life must go on. Smile, for you never know what good things life throws at you tomorrow. As my younger brother would always say, ‘it’s a matter of time’.
In finding positivity in negativity, try to remember the favours and good things you have enjoyed in the past. Begin to imagine a tomorrow of open doors, better opportunities and begin working towards them.
If you can meditate please do. If you are prayerful then continue to pray. Enjoy your favorite tv shows. Do anything that will bring you joy. By so doing you will surely find positivity in negativity.
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( From The Cockcrow, a compilation of short stories, drama, and poems by John A. Sackey and Lawrence Darmani ) The Cockcrow is available in all bookshops in Ghana.
Setting : Hasodzi ( a big village in the Central Region of Ghana )
Adjoa ( a name given to a female born on Monday )
Nana ( grandmother )
Maami ( mother )
Every parent, guardian, or adult must read this review and note that: THE PROBLEMS CHILDRENFACE DIFFERS FROMTHAT OF ADULTS.
A seven-year-old Adjoa lives with her grandmother and mother in Hasodzi village.
Adjoa’s Problem 1
Adjoa has so many thoughts in her head but struggles to find the proper language to express them. Whenever she speaks she is either told to never, never, say those things again or she is laughed at uncontrollably by the adults present.
As adults, Adjoa’s grandmother and mother constantly fail to give her proper feedback hence, causing her to be confused in her small world. Whenever she has something to say they either shut her up by telling her not to ever repeat her spoken words or she is laughed at.
What they fail to do is to explain to the little girl why she isn’t supposed to say what she said or why her words were funny or better yet how to go about it the next time.
Adjoa’s Problem 2
The sweet innocent little girl likes her grandmother but the only time she doesn’t appreciate her grandmother is when she talks about her small legs.
According to the grandmother, the girl’s legs are too long and tinny to support her hips to enable child bearing. Is this what they call body shaming? Hmm! I wonder the sort of research the woman had conducted. She constantly has to hear all kinds of negative comments about her legs. She didn’t create them, did she? Please take note of all the various forms of body shaming that you unknowingly might be practicing on your child, family members or friends.
Adjoa’s Problem 3
Nana ( grandmother ) wouldn’t stop talking about the girl’s father with such disapproval. This again happens in her presence. Ah! Imagine how you would feel when you constantly have to hear bad comments about your dad. That is what Adjoa has to face daily.
Unknowingly to Nana and Maami, Adjoa has been running in school with her classmates and winning first position all the time. It comes as a shock to the grandmother when her teachers informs them that Adjoa has been selected to run for the junior section of their school district games.
Her grandmother is present and sees the performances of the girl during the entire week athletics. As it’s supposed to be she wins the cup for the best-round junior athlete. Nana carries the gleaming cup on her back and now proudly appreciates her granddaughter’s legs. That’s how it is supposed to be right? Thin legs or big legs they are to be celebrated.
How do you treat children around you? Body shaming is widely practiced whether knowingly or unknowingly. It must stop! It’s up to you and I to create this massive awareness of it.
Also, let’s be cautious what we say around children. Especially bad mouthing their parents in their presence. Let’s not pollute their minds against their parents or relatives.
Let us also take time to listen to them and give appropriate feedback for that will make them eloquent and confident.
I hope you enjoyed this review. Let me know your opinions on the issues raised. Shalom.
Defending Your Brand: How Smart Companies Use Defensive Strategy to Deal with Competitive Attacks
Author: Tim Calkins
Year of Publication: 2013
Tim Calkins is a clinical professor of marketing at Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Management. Other books under his authorship are Breakthrough Marketing Plans and How To Wash A Chicken: Mastering the Business Presentation.
Before I dive into the synopsis you may ask what a brand is.
According to Wikipedia, a brand is a name, term, design, symbol, or any other feature that identifies one seller’s good or service as distinct from those of other sellers.
The moment you start reading the first few pages of this book, Tim impresses readers that in the world of business, competition can’t be left out. Whether you are a big company or a small/medium size business have it at the back of your mind that somebody or a company somewhere is planning on entering your kind of business.
You must protect your position in the market against new entrants. A new entrant means a drop in your profits or market shares. Hence, the need for defense strategies.
Business defense includes everything a company does to react to competitive threats. He does excellent work to explain that whereas growth strategies include all the proactive steps taken to build your business such as advertising, new product introduction, cost reduction efforts, promotional offers, defensive strategies are your response to your competitor’s moves.
There are not many books written on this topic because some of the tactics employed aren’t supposed to be in the public domain.
I DID, YOU WOULD TOO
Reading this book is not cumbersome because of how the author weaves real-life business establishment examples to support every issue he raised. At a point, the reader will have an a-ha! moment. This book is simply a pack of knowledge. You will be able to relate to it even if you aren’t in the business field.
Interestingly, Tim states that this book is primarily for people who lead organizations, companies be it small or big, or a charitable church organization. But I see it as an oversight that he didn’t mention teachers, married couples, health professionals, and indeed any individual at all.
I hold a personal belief that we are our unique brands even as individuals and we must also master the art of defense because our whole being is a company and what we stand for is our brand that needs to be defended from intruders just as a lioness would her cubs.
On the other hand, I’m blown away by his presentation on the moral lessons learned from what happened between the movie rental company, Blockbuster, Netflix, and Red box.
In his quest to create awareness of the importance of defense strategies, he expatiates on the subject of financial challenges businesses might face and getting to know your competitor by gathering information.
Social media also plays a key role here. He also advises that lawyers be consulted in areas that bother on state laws on businesses.
IT’S A WRAP!
To wrap up, Defending Your Brand has not disappointed me at all. It has succeeded in exposing the various interesting, enlightening, and sometimes shady tactics used by smart businesses to stay in their game. The book is available here.
Rogers is a Ugandan blogger who has pulled me out of my laziness web. His works can be found here
THE UNMARRIED AFRICAN WOMAN
There comes a point in a woman’s life when it seems that all hope is lost. When I say a woman, I mean an unmarried African woman in her thirties. There comes that time when you feel lost in this big world. There comes that time when you feel like time is passing you by.
That usually happens when you are reminded by people that your “biological clock is ticking”.
But I ask myself this question: who owns time? Just like my surname Nsesonkpa, which is also a question and it means who owns life? The answer to both questions is God, the creator of heaven and earth.
He owns life, time – minutes, seconds, and hours. If that is the answer, then the reality is this: your spinsterhood time belongs to God.
Take joy in the word in Jeremiah 29: 11 which says, For I know the plans I have for you, ” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
JOY IN SINGLENESS
Can there ever be joy in being single? Oh yes! Absolutely yes! My dear unmarried African woman, this same time that you think is passing you by can be used for your advantage.
You have the time to study if you so wish as you are unmarried. You have the luxury of time to travel if you have the means. You have enough time to read if you love to read.
Use your time in being single wisely for as surely as the Lord lives you will also get married and you might not have that luxury of time at your disposal to do the things you love. So, go on and write that book, start that business, go for that training.
Girl! Pursue your dreams. Do not allow any pressure to dictate the course of your life. A big cheer to all unmarried African women.🙋
THE UNMARRIED AFRICAN MAN
The closer one approaches their thirties, the more pressure, both internally and externally, they have to deal with. Internally, whereby you have to prove that all the investment that your parents or guardians have put into you was worth it.
We are talking millions of shillings (Ugandan currency), time, and effort. This all goes on in your mind and heart and if you are not strong-hearted, you may become depressed. It has never been more difficult to succeed than ever before.
Yet, surprisingly, it has never been easier to succeed. Success stories around you never cease. Couple this with the evolution of social media which constantly reminds you that everyone is ‘doing well’ and the pressure keeps mounting.
But are they really? Is what you see the reality of what’s happening in their lives or it’s all an elaborate illusion. If you don’t mind your race, you will be unsettled for the rest of your life.
It is therefore better to run your race. Have your own vision and goals and stick to accomplishing them in the time you set for yourself.
As men, the pressure to prove ourselves is ever mounting. To yourself, peers, potential female suitors, family, and society as a whole.
This perhaps is even more ridiculous because the more you achieve, the more that’s expected of you.
I guess the same is expected of women? I won’t speak for them though as my co-author already gave her opinion.
What I believe is best is to engage with those older than you and having intimate discussions on how they navigated the season you are in. it feels to me as though a great valley has developed between adults and their younger counterparts.
The more you talk to older people, the more you realize you are not really out of time as you think. This helps you relax and do you. You get to focus on what’s really important, chasing your dreams.
Besides, even an older person can listen to a younger person and take their advice. One saying in Luganda, a prominent language in Uganda, “Nómuto Hakuba Algoma, omukulu nazina” explains it well. Loosely translated, it means that advice can be given two-way, by a younger person and an older person too.
Anyway, we are all different and so are our destinies. Embrace yours.
This is not to say that I am there yet. But it is right for me to show my appreciation to all who have supported me in diverse ways.
I started blogging with 1 follower for several months after sharing my blog link to many of my contacts on Whatsapp. This first follower is a course mate of mine from Ghana Baptist University. I thank him for believing in me.
Like Fish Taken From The River To The Land
When I started, I was like a 🐠 taken from its natural habitat to the dry land. I was running from one site to the other reading and gathering all the facts I needed. I tell you, I slept late in the night and woke up late in the morning to take my breakfast. I even reduced in weight without realizing it. All for what? I just needed to prove to myself that I could do it! And yes I have done it!
Yes! I Have Done It!
Today, I have 101 WordPressfollowers, 6 email subscribers and 20 twitter followers. Oh! Yeah! Am proud of myself and where I have gotten to. I still have a lot to learn, upgrade my site and work on the almighty SEO.
Countries Of My Followers
I would like to express my profound gratitude to all my followers. You spend your precious time to read, comment and like my posts. My followers come from different parts of the world such as SERBIA, JAPAN, CROATIA, BELGIUM, COTE D’ IVOIRE, ICELAND, NAMIBIA, IRELAND, SOUTH AFRICA, JAMAICA, ZAMBIA, KENYA, ZIMBABWE, NETHERLANDS, PAKISTAN, INDIA, ISRAEL, US, UK, CANADA, AUSTRALIA, INDONESIA, AUSTRIA PORTUGAL, NORWAY, LITHUANIA, NEW ZEALAND, FRANCE, GUAM, PHILIPPINES, ROMANIA,GERMANY, GHANA, and MALAYSIA. Not exhausted. To you all I say once again, thank you ( English ). Gracias (Spanish). Me da mo ase ( Asante Twi ).
This blogging journey has been awesome. Indeed the blogging community is a place to be. I am happy to announce to you all that Hill Study Center has been nominated by Afrobloggers for the 2020 Awards under the FRESH VOICE CATEGORY. This category is basically for new bloggers of which I am one. I humbly ask you all to vote for me.
IS HOLDING IN FARTS HEALTHY FOR YOU? IS IT POLITE TO FART? WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO FART?
What Is Senryu Poetry?
Senryu is a three-line Japanese poetic form that focuses on human nature, generally with an ironic or darkly comedic edge.
Adjei Agyei-Baah, a lover of poems has intelligently crafted these Senryu poems to capture human nature. He also added a translation of the poems in Asante Twi, one of the languages spoken in Ghana. Adjei has so many awards to his credit and still counting. This is a review I did for his Haiku, Afriku poem collection.
With this Senryu poems I chose GIF short videos to review it to add more comic touch to it. These are just a few I presented here. Enjoy!
elevator – meeting me with someone’s fart
Asante Twi translation…
ahweaa de obi tá hyia me kwan
staff meeting a quick dissolution from a fart
Asante Twi translation…
atikyafoɔ nhyiamu ɛtá de nhyiamu ba awieɛ
waking to a boom from the sleeping mat-
my head on sibling’s butt
Asante Twi translation …
ɛtuo to wɔ kɛtɛ so-
mebɔ pitiri hunu sɛ me tiri da me nua to ho
well site – bringing up the water with a fart
Asante Twi translation…
abura ho – meretwe nsuo no na tá di akyire
cool airtight bus then someone let go …
Asante Twi translation…
akwantu tenten wɔ baase nwununwunu mu – obi sɛe mframa no mpofirim
Timothy, my nephew, has taught me a lot of lessons about motherhood. He had to live with us because his mother, my cousin got admitted at the hospital for two weeks. Then, after her discharge from the hospital, she had to go back to deliver her baby. Just around that time, the covid19 stay home was announced.
Tim, had to continue living with us so that his mum could have enough time for the new baby. He has been with us for almost 10 months now. He sleeps in my room. Anywhere I go he is sure to follow me. During his stay with us I have learnt a lot about being a mother to a child. I have learnt to be extra patient, watch what I say to him because eventually, he will say the same words to me the next day. I have learnt not to give in to all his demands no matter how loud he cries. I have learnt to pray for him as a mother would for her child.
In our neighborhood, everyone says we shouldn’t send him back because it’s as if I am his biological mother 😅. The bond between Tim and I is deep. I thank God for bringing him into my life. He will eventually have to go back to his mom and his siblings but I will definitely miss him big time.
I will miss how he praises me when I wear a new dress. I will miss how he won’t allow anyone to bath him except me. I will miss our evening strolls in the neighborhood. And I will miss him calling me mama.
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I wish you all a very merry Christmas. May this Christmas bring us joy and satisfaction.